Your absolutely right but it’s not just about being blonde with tanned skin either its all about your looks. The Media is constantly having displays of women that they think the world must see, they also show that if you don’t look like that model that you just saw on that Covergirl commercial or if you don’t show off your body(If you go it flaunt it)then your not worth much. I think the meaning "SEXY" is being misunderstood.True sexiness radiates from the confidence that you posses, not the clothes that you wear or the way guys look at you. Media has made the bad "sexy" look more important than the good, They say exploiting your body shows the world that you are confident in yourself. Yes there is nothing wrong with telling the world that you love your body, but stripping in public?Now that’s just disrespecting yourself. Females are a powerful sex and being confident and comfortable with ourselves IS the sexiest thing in the world!!!!

thats just popular oppinion, their not hottest, its because thats how hollywood is doing it everyone decides to follow

personally i prefer light skin and dark hair

dont your ex get to you, if he wants to change you then you can do better, find someone who likes you for who you are

do you know who Catherin Zeta Jones is she has dark hair and very fair skin and she Is HOT

Dont worry about that. Guys that like fake girls want fake relationships. Real men like real women, plain and simple. Idk why thats the trend these days, but i like my hair and i dont want cancer so i guess ill just have to continue living life "ugly" lol

you don’t go bald from over-dying fyi. And why should you care what others do, isn’t it their problem if anything?

if your boyfriend doesnt like you this way then you can do way better!
but i diagree because i have really tan skin and blonde hair but it is natural and it kinda sounds like you have something against blondes

That is definitely not the preferred look. My boyfriend is tan, blond hair blue eyed, youd think he’d go for the same in a girl right? But I have really dark hair, and I’m naturally tanned but I don’t have that faked out look that a lot of guys are attracted to. Some guys just prefer that playboy-esque look. You can’t really blame them. Tan and blond stick out a lot. It’s really colorful. But if you look at models, most of them are more natural looking, dark shades of blond, and brown hair. No fake color. It’s a lot sexier. And I’m not sure how old you are, but I noticed that the older I got, the more guys preferred girls that weren’t the typical blond bombshell look. They want something more unique. So, tell your ex that he’s a clown and move on. What a douche. I’m sure you’re a dark haired beauty! Just think Bella from twilight lol

not true, im avg tan, blak hair and blue eyes and alot of people including my bf love it. most grls who r fake with the fake tan and fake blondes are attention diggers and thats what they get. u should be proud of being who ur and if ur bfs not then take my word and dumb his a@@ cause im sure theres someone out there who will lke u for u really are.

Yeah, lol. I mean, there can be beautiful blonde people, and beautiful tan people, but a lot of over-dying and over-tanning happens, and it can look very unhealthy. If that’s not the natural look that they have, you can tell.

Look at Brooke Hogan– She has a really dark fake tan and obviously overdoes the hair bleach– And she already looks like her mother, who is 50 years old!

I have procelain skin (even though I am half Mexican! ) dark hair, and dark eyes like you… People say that I should tan and crap, but they’re the ones who will end up with wrinkles and stuff. They’ll look all leathery if they overdo it.

I’m glad for you that that loser is now your ex.

Who cares what this standard of beauty is? It varies throughout the world, and it changes with time– At least we won’t look like a balding piece of beef jerky.