So many women waste so much effort trying to manipulate their appearance. Black women who bleach their hair, or even worse, unflattering weaves, blue eye contacts, skin bleach. Then white women apply those godawful spray on tans, and some will go so far as to surgically enhance their lips and get breast and butt implants. The irony of it all is black women look best when they stay their natural color and white women do too. White women look better with light skin (e.g. Marilyn Monroe, Betty Grable) as opposed to orange skin just like black women look better when they leave their hair, eyes, and skin their natural color. I think my black hair, brown eyes, and chocolate skin suits me just fine and in all modesty, many people have complimented me on how beautiful they think I look. I like my raven hair and I just do stuff like style it with pincurls 40′s/50′s style instead of garbage like bleaching it or burning it with a blowtorch or relaxer or whatever to make it flat as humanly possible. I like volume, not stick straight hair. I work with my looks, not against them. Some people look better light but this is what looks good on me. I’m not saying you should run around acting cocky and shouting "I’m beautiful" to everyone but you should still subtly appreciate what God gave you.

And yes I know there are naturally high yalla chicks and white women who look good with a suntan (if it’s natural) but those are the exceptions to what I said.