I am an average looking guy and don’t get the "hunk" description from friends and family. I am really at a loss as to how my appearance is coming across as I am single and living alone and a bit out of touch at 41. I’m talking about the whole ball of wax: hair implants, nose job, clothing, etc. Are there people who can help me understand how to improve my appearance? I just need an honest opinion from an honest person, male or female. Should I go to hot or not with a pic? Are there any places to go where I could get this kind of advice and assistance?