is it possible for a middle aged, balding, overweight man to be considered sexy by hot looking women? How?

October 27, 2010 Dr. Mike 14 comments

I am all the things I mentioned (middle aged, badling, overweight). I have always been jealous of guys who just seem to attract hot looking women. They seem confident and successful and I am more like a "wall flower". So I wonder if it is even possible for a guy like me to ever be considered sexy. I would love to , just once in my life, walk down the street and know that women are checking me out. That would be the greatest feeling in the world. I would definetly appreciate any advice or suggestions you could offer me (and I know they will include lose weight, dress stylishly, get hair implants, etc.) Thanks and I hope to get some answers.

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Written by LSG about 2 years ago.

Hair doesn’t matter – bald men can be sexy. You should dress stylishly no matter what your weight it. Try to lose weight too.
Find a Life Coach – they can help you work on your self esteem and give you pointers for socializing. Good luck.
Written by Long Haired Jesus about 2 years ago.

Well, just remember this Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Look at George from "Seinfeld" he got some pretty attractive women. I have seen men like you with attractive women.
Written by Go Pats!! about 2 years ago.

Staple 100 dollar bills to your clothing. The chicks will come a flockin’!
Written by Roni L about 2 years ago.

You yourself said that suggestions would include "lost weight, dress stylishly, get hair implants, etc." So obviously you already know what you need to do in order to be "sexy."

So get yourself fixed up. Balding, overweight men aren’t attractive. But at least you’ve recognized this, and that’s the first step.
Written by stix about 2 years ago.

if you want to lose weight, then go for it. not going to tell you to get implants (very weird looking). it’s easy to dress differently. if you get clothes that fit your body, then you don’t look sloppy. as for being "sexy", i think it’s all in your head. be the best you can be, and have confidence in that. good luck.
Written by Lucifer about 2 years ago.

just exercize man! women don’t care if your bald. and they don’t care how old you are, as long as your in shape and not an asshole.. My tip is always the same, treat them like there a guy, don’t directley say that you like them because that just GOES WITHOUT SAYING! just hang out with them! they will always let you know how far they want you to go.
And get off the wall man, just talk to girls, talk to as many as you can, but NEVER tell them they’re "Beautifel" or anything like that, It’s like i said, treat them like they’re a guy. But don’t talk about dick and fart jokes lol. Then just invite them to HANG out, not GO OUT, but HANG OUT. Good luck brother.
Written by Andrea G about 2 years ago.

What you shouldn’t worry about is what people think of you. If i were you, i would want to know that someone thought i was sexy because of my personality and not my looks. Hott guys are usually complete asses. Be yourself and remember, different people different things.
Written by kait the hotshot about 2 years ago.

no way. if she is hot and ur not, boy u will never last!! i’d say grannys would like u better.
Written by Fara about 2 years ago.

my personal take on sexiness is that it’s how you act that attracts…not how you look. If you act like a wall flower thats how others will percieve you. Be the lion ^_^ (or a cute tabby puss)
Written by 420_PimpDoc about 2 years ago.

Yea I agree with Roni (above). U see where there is room 4 improvement and work on it. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Success is 99% inspiration 1% perspiration….Thomas Edison
Written by Green-eyed Nikki about 2 years ago.

well, everyone has a different definition of what sexy is. For instance I personally don’t like my guys to be really skinny or really overweight… just in the middle. If you’re balding, perhaps just brave it and go totally bald. It will look cleaner and nicer than having patches (my stepdad went through the same thing) and plenty of women like bald men. For dress you don’t always have to dress stylishly. Even jeans and a t-shirt look perfectly fine. Just make sure the clothes you wear are clean. Perhaps try a new cologne. I don’t know one woman who doesn’t love a man who smells good. Or even just a nice aftershave is fine as well. Whatever is best for you. As far as your weight… I think if you are comfortable with yourself then that should be well enough. However, if your health is at risk that is when I would advise to lose weight. People should like you for who you are as a person more than your looks. Also, a very big thing for many women is confidence. If you are confident in yourself it will show. Even if you’re faking it a little bit, who cares. I wish you the best of luck finding a special lady who makes you happy
Written by Kittiness about 2 years ago.

Well, you wouldn’t have to change the single physical thing about yourself if you want to attract hot, sexy, woman. Make lots of money, drive a stylish car, and you’ll have all the triple-D, gold-digging broads flocking to you.

Now, if you’d get over being shallow, and be accepting of who you are, then perhaps you’ll realize that half those "attractive men," aren’t even half as happy as you’d think them to be. They wind up cheating/being cheated on by these "hot woman," and for what reason? Not because they don’t love you anymore, but because your "good looks" have faded, or because your checkbook isn’t as heavy as it once was.

Give me a break.
Written by mela about 2 years ago.

yes it is possible. i got friends like you, balding, overweight and middle age. remember as they say.life begins at 40. and being sexy comes from your attitude and self esteem. there are younger men, more fit but are not feeling sexy. so you see its its in the self esteem and attitude where the feeling of sexiness comes. well as for being over weight, you are aware the you have to trim down a bit for health reasons. when you are healthy and practice healthy living and exercise, you have better attitude towards self. remember you have to love yourslef first before considering being loved by another individual. good luck to you. take care of yourself!
Written by Artemm about 2 years ago.

Well you just described Sir Sean Connery when he was chosen the sexiest man alive about the time he did "The Hunt for the Red October". But of course Sean Connery is Sean Connery. By the way is he was balding since he was 30, he wore a "toupee" for all James Bond movies, but he never wears them in real life.

Lose weight man, eat healthy food, go to the gym, and dress well, don’t forget the shoes, and to do your nails (the ladies pay attention to the details). About balding it depends on the ladies; some like it, others don’t.

And more important, be self confident; women don’t find attractive self pity on a guy.