Hello, I am just over 30 and I am on my way to looking like George Costanza or Captian Picard i.e I am going bald. I have worn a hat for a long time to hide it, but it only helps a little. I am really self consious about my hair and it has a huge effect on my self confidience. I try to look for other examples of people who are sucessfull or respected as well as bald and they are few and far between. On television, almost everyone has nice hair and I constantly see comercials for the hair club or medical hair restoration. The commercials talk about baldness like it is a disease. How will I ever find the confidence to meet a woman and have a family, something I want very much, when I feel like I have a hair disease, or a physical flaw that makes me ugly? Please be honest in your responces.