I would like to know which products are the best for my hair for best results:

About my hair:
I am 19 and I have THICK Korean hair, but it’s been slightly thinning lately and I don’t know why. I usually use Pantene but I recently switched to a salon brand from Sally’s and I think it’s from that but I’m not sure because I heard Pantene thins your hair and makes it fall out. But anyways, I usually have THICK Asian hair, EXTREMELY coarse meaning frizziness beyond manageability, dull, VERY dry, feels like hay, and no shine. I rarely ever use heated styling tools, so rare that it can go into the never category. I always let it air dry after a shower because I hate blow dryers, they just create more frizz. In the past I have permed and dyed it but I have let it all grow out now so I have my natural thick, coarse, unruly hair.

Products I looked at:
Aussie – Cleanse and Mend Shampoo and Conditioner
Aussie – Moist Shampoo and Conditioner
Aussie – Sydney Smooth Shampoo and Conditioner
Aveeno – Nourish and Moisturize Shampoo and Conditioner
Aveeno – Nourish and Shine Shampoo and Conditioner
Garnier Fructis – Daily Care Shampoo and Conditioner
Garnier Fructis – Sleek and Shine Shampoo and Conditioner
Garnier Fructis – Length and Strength Shampoo and Conditioner
Garnier Fructis – Moisture Works Shampoo and Conditioner
Garnier Fructis – Triple Nutrition Shampoo and Conditioner
Herbal Essences – Drama Clean Shampoo and Conditioner
Herbal Essences – Hello Hydration Shampoo and Conditioner
Herbal Essences – Hydralicious Shampoo and Conditioner for Dry and Damaged Hair
Herbal Essences – Long Term Relationship Shampoo and Conditioner
Herbal Essences – None of Your Frizzness Shampoo and Conditioner
John Frieda – Root Awakening Strength Restoring Shampoo and Conditioner
John Frieda – Root Awakening Nourishing Moisture Shampoo and Conditioner
John Frieda – Brilliant Brunette Shine Release Moisturizing Shampoo and Conditioner
John Frieda – Brilliant Brunette Liquid Shine Illuminating Shampoo and Conditioner
John Frieda – Brilliant Brunette Shine Release Daily Shampoo and Conditioner
Nexxus – Botanical Shampoo and Conditioner (Botanoil and Botanphuse)
Nexxus – Moisturizing Shampoo and Conditioner (Therappe and Humectress)
Nexxus – Smoothing Shampoo and Conditioner (Sleektress and Hydra Sleek)
Nexxus – Dualiste Color Protection and Intense Hydration
Nexxus – Dualiste Color Protection and Anti-Breakage
Pantene Pro V – Frizzy to Smooth Shampoo and Conditioner for Medium to Thick Hair
Pantene Pro V – Dry to Moisturized Shampoo and Conditioner for Medium to Thick Hair
Pantene Pro V – Breakage to Strength Shampoo and Conditioner for Medium to Thick Hair
Pantene Pro V – Intensive Restoration Treatment
Sunsilk – Hydra TLC Collection

**I don’t like John Frieda Frizzease products

Results I want:
I want a shampoo and conditioner that will give me soft, shiny, strong, manageable hair. I want my hair to be able to maintain the natural thickness before it started thinning or falling out, meaning having it restored back to its natural thickness. It also doesn’t hurt if the shampoo and conditioner smells great . If the products above are not the best, what brand of shampoo and conditioner are for the results I want. I would like something affordable and easy to find and buy. Think Wal-Mart.

Please help!
I don’t know if you caught it above but it was briefly mentioned, but a lot of my hair is falling out. I feel like I am losing more than the average person. I don’t know if it’s because of my shampoo or if I’m overanalyzing it.