I’m going to ask this question trying my hardest not to sound racist, or to offend anyone. On television I see a lot of Caucasian females (and some males) tan their skin, inject their lips, and get butt and breast implants. I’m guessing they are trying to look like another race. And people in Hollywood are acting as if this is something new. Black people have always had this look. And I see the exact same thing with my own race. Like colored contacts?!?!? Colored hair, and long weaves. I saw this lady who was black she had long blonde hair (weave) and blue eyes. (contacts) Why? Why do we aspire to be like our counterparts? I have worn weaves before, and I have gotten relaxers and perms. But I do regret it. I wish I loved myself enough to keep my natural curly beautiful hair. I’m not that mad about it now though I made to decision to grow it back out. I understand that some people may find other race’s attribute beautiful, but when you alternate yourself to make you look like something else, shows that you are not comfortable in you own skin. To morph yourself to the point that you’re orange! To buy a sh*tload of cosmetics just to make you look like someone you saw on TV! It just seems crazy to me. And I’m curious is how things got that way, and if anyone feels the same way I do?
SELF it’s called SELF expression when you copy someone else?!?! Ok.
And not once in my question I said all people of one race look alike, because they don’t. I didn’t assume anything, everything I said I made from my own observations I mean I went up the people and asked them myself because I don’t assume things…
I don’t have a problem with cosmetics, or making yourself look better.I’m just asking when does it become excessive, to the point where you natural identity is lost? And it’s not a race thing I see this in ALL PEOPLE.
My name don’t matter: Big lips, big butts, colored skin, and big breast are something that most girls who are minority have naturally, and it is also something that is being surgically reproduced more and more every year. I’m just putting two and two together. I’m not saying we’re the only ones with these attributes all I’m saying is this phenomenon is a little more than a coincidence. And most black girls are ugly? I’m not even going to go there. And about the black guys and white women thing, I know plenty of white guys who love black women and vise versa. I’m not being cocky, if you read I said it’s something I noticed in all races. I see black girls who go out there way to make themselves look like a different race. I’m trying to make a point, when do we lose ourselves in our quest to beauty? That’s the point of the question… so your answer is harsh for no reason.